Lonely and Anti-social

Hey man. I feel ya. Being lonely is hard. Interacting with other people is hard. Romance, especially with women, is hard.

However, I don’t know if your plan is completely thought out. Consider these things:

  1. Everyone is lonely.
  2. Being anti-social means you are not capable of sharing a frame of reality with another person. Two people not sharing a frame of reference won’t be able to maintain a relationship.
  3. Best case scenario you will break up fast, worst case, you will become co-dependent.
  4. A woman who is sad and anti-social will do nothing to help you climb out of your hole.

I would suggest you read this book:

A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida

It will give you some great ideas about finding your true passion and creating energy and vibrance in your life. Once you are producing that kind of energy for yourself, the women will be flocking to your light. Maybe not the lonely, anti-social ones, but I don’t think you will mind at that point.


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